I seem to attract guys that are unavailable. Whether they already have a woman in their life or just not ready to really be in a relationship, I seem to be a magnet for them.
I have dated my fair share of the "not ready" guy. This is the guy that wants to have all the benefits of being a boyfriend, but is unwilling to put that label on it. He gives this really logical explanation that keeps me hanging on waiting for the moment that he will change his mind and want to take the next step. This never happens. Ultimately, I am just being used for my kind heart and willingness to participate in such a game. If you were to confront "not ready" guy about playing me, he would ferverently deny it. He would say that he has genuine feelings for me and that I have been a willing participant in this little life drama. And when he eventually walks away, he will leave me broken hearted and confused, wondering why I wasn't good enough to be his.
I also get guys that are with someone that tell me how wonderful I am and how "if only I had met you first". Cut the crap. You and I both know all this is about is sex. You will NEVER leave your girlfriend/wife for me. I have never wanted to be the "other woman". I know what it is like to be cheated on. I know what it is like to have another woman make moves on my man knowing that I am in the picture. I refuse to be part of another woman's heartbreak. Yet, I seem to attract these men that try and give me all kinds of stories about how they are currently on a break or trying to break it off smoothly. Bullshit. Call me six months after it's over and then maybe we can talk. Better yet, if your girlfriend is someone I consider a friend, don't ever call me. Friends don't date friend's exes. No, no, no.
Thursday, September 21, 2006
Don't make me your accomplice
I seem to attract guys that are unavailable. Whether they already have a woman in their life or just not ready to really be in a relationship, I seem to be a magnet for them.
I have dated my fair share of the "not ready" guy. This is the guy that wants to have all the benefits of being a boyfriend, but is unwilling to put that label on it. He gives this really logical explanation that keeps me hanging on waiting for the moment that he will change his mind and want to take the next step. This never happens. Ultimately, I am just being used for my kind heart and willingness to participate in such a game. If you were to confront "not ready" guy about playing me, he would feverently deny it. He would say that he has geniune feelings for me and that I have been a willing particpant in this little life drama. And when he eventually walks away, he will leave me broken hearted and confused, wondering why I wasn't good enough to be his.
I also get guys that are with someone that tell me how wonderful I am and how "if only I had met you first". Cut the crap. You and I both know all this is about is sex. You will NEVER leave your girlfriend/wife for me. I have never wanted to be the "other woman". I know what it is like to be cheated on. I know what it is like to have another woman make moves on my man knowing that I am in the picture. I refuse to be part of another woman's heartbreak. Yet, I seem to attract these men that try and give me all kinds of stories about how they are currently on a break or trying to break it off smoothly. Bullshit. Call me six months after it's over and then maybe we can talk. Better yet, if your girlfriend is someone I consider a friend, don't ever call me. Friends don't date friend's exes. No, no, no.
I have dated my fair share of the "not ready" guy. This is the guy that wants to have all the benefits of being a boyfriend, but is unwilling to put that label on it. He gives this really logical explanation that keeps me hanging on waiting for the moment that he will change his mind and want to take the next step. This never happens. Ultimately, I am just being used for my kind heart and willingness to participate in such a game. If you were to confront "not ready" guy about playing me, he would feverently deny it. He would say that he has geniune feelings for me and that I have been a willing particpant in this little life drama. And when he eventually walks away, he will leave me broken hearted and confused, wondering why I wasn't good enough to be his.
I also get guys that are with someone that tell me how wonderful I am and how "if only I had met you first". Cut the crap. You and I both know all this is about is sex. You will NEVER leave your girlfriend/wife for me. I have never wanted to be the "other woman". I know what it is like to be cheated on. I know what it is like to have another woman make moves on my man knowing that I am in the picture. I refuse to be part of another woman's heartbreak. Yet, I seem to attract these men that try and give me all kinds of stories about how they are currently on a break or trying to break it off smoothly. Bullshit. Call me six months after it's over and then maybe we can talk. Better yet, if your girlfriend is someone I consider a friend, don't ever call me. Friends don't date friend's exes. No, no, no.
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